JaysInc Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 So today, I was planning on asking out the girl I like, and this is how it went down. >Go to locker >See girl >I say hi >"hey" >She walks to her friends >Walk up to her >Make 50° turn away from girl and walk to bus > (-_-) JUST UGH!!! IT KILLS ME!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tehnoobshow Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) Have you tried not liking girls? Edited September 26, 2014 by Tehnoobshow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frost.Umbra Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Women really love confidence in a guy. Just remember, the worst that can happen is she says "no." May hurt your ego, but it will hurt less than never knowing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
APBladeX Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Try showing off your Birdlifter Prime. She'll be falling for you within seconds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(PSN)IIIDevoidIII Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 You are supposed to befriend her first. With a charming yet distant approach, befriending broods mystery and attractiveness to that mystery. Just don't be creepy about it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaysInc Posted September 26, 2014 Author Share Posted September 26, 2014 Women really love confidence in a guy. Just remember, the worst that can happen is she says "no." May hurt your ego, but it will hurt less than never knowing. Got rejected like 2 times by 2 different girls ( 3rd from an "exex") Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 communication and interaction are skills you gotta learn how to do them just like math, or english, or a sport Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnProdman Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 I don't really believe in the whole 'asking out' thing. For me, it either happens or it doesn't. Making it 'official' seems like a gimmick and should only be used by people on television, or young children who don't yet know better. Avoid all the stress and hang with a girl that you can be friendly with and let everything happen naturally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[DE]Momaw Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 If you were able to approach her by herself but not when she formed ranks with her support group, have you considered asking her to talk alone? Realistically it's not any of their business unless she wants to tell them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taramafor Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) I been there. First: speak up. Second: don't try too hard, be yourself. Even if you're socially awkward (as I am) at least that's who you are. And you have to be accepted as yourself. Third: ask yourself if you really like her or if you just have some silly schoolboy crush on her because she's popular or whatever. Forth: Whatever happens, happens. But at least try because that's better then not trying at all and not knowing. Edited September 26, 2014 by Taramafor Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnProdman Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) But at least try because that's better then not trying at all and not knowing. I disagree. Not trying can be a hell of a lot better than the other possible outcomes. Edit: But I guess we're talking about a kid relationship here and not an adult. Edited September 26, 2014 by JohnProdman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cleesus Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Sometimes you just have to yolo it just dont be weird or awkward about it. Females and humans in general love and respond to humor so try that if you can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PsychedelicSnake Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 I been there. First: speak up. Second: don't try too hard, be yourself. Even if you're socially awkward (as I am) at least that's who you are. And you have to be accepted as yourself. Third: ask yourself if you really like her or if you just have some silly schoolboy crush on her because she's popular or whatever. Forth: Whatever happens, happens. But at least try because that's better then not trying at all and not knowing. Important part bolded, italicized, and underlined. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlraistlx Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 As other have already said. Have confidence, be yourself, do not get egomaniac (this is pretty hard I admit). If you can make her laugh, she will go out with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
011100110110000101101101 Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Well my friend. My advice to you would be to be yourself. That is all. If you are not yourself, either she will like your persona and not you, or she will hate your persona and you will lose your chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taramafor Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) I disagree. Not trying can be a hell of a lot better than the other possible outcomes. If you would rather never try and end up alone by choice instead of risking being with someone or not then that's your call. Worst case scenario? You don't get accepted and you realize it won't work out. Or that a lot of work needs to be done before things can work out. But nothing in life worth having comes easy. Having things not work out time and again can be a downer though. And that can eat away at ones confidence big time. Personally I've learned to take things a little easier and let things fall into place. Something I've struggled with but something that seems to be producing better results. Edited September 26, 2014 by Taramafor Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrhat.lf Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 How about becoming one with the Lotus? (I don't mean DERebbeca.) You don't have to worry about anything except for yelling at your Tenno allies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ailissa Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Ahhh, personal issues on the internet ... that always go well. I especially love it when men tell other men what women want .... while having absolutely no idea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(PSN)IIIDevoidIII Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Ahhh, personal issues on the internet ... that always go well. I especially love it when men tell other men what women want .... while having absolutely no idea. Hey, it's as close as I can get to figuring out why my woman chose me (what I posted). :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ailissa Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Hey, it's as close as I can get to figuring out why my woman chose me (what I posted). :P I wasn't aiming it at anyone as such. I used to dwell on the escapist but the amount of weird put me off. There are only so many "friend zone" threads I can see on a gaming site before it gets too much... Anywhoo .... the amount of teenage lads and young adults that seem to know exactly what women want from a man is hilarious. Even more amusing when you find out the majority of them are single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cleesus Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 I wasn't aiming it at anyone as such. I used to dwell on the escapist but the amount of weird put me off. There are only so many "friend zone" threads I can see on a gaming site before it gets too much... Anywhoo .... the amount of teenage lads and young adults that seem to know exactly what women want from a man is hilarious. Even more amusing when you find out the majority of them are single. Whats your purpose in this thread tho? Are you here to give him advice or make fun of it for whatever reason? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BizarreFetalChimpanzee Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ailissa Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 (edited) Whats your purpose in this thread tho? Are you here to give him advice or make fun of it for whatever reason? My advice is not to listen to people on the internet, sorry, I thought i'd said that. He already said he was shy. Telling him to be confident is like telling the clouds not to rain, aint happening. Things like this are down to the person involved and them only. Women respond to different things. We're not sheep, we don't all like the same things. Some like "bad boys", some like the brooding silent type, most like someone who can make them laugh. Me, I got a bloke that let me know he was interested from the get go. I prefer the direct approach. I've had people try the friends route. I don't need more friends, i've got plenty of my own. I especially don't need a friend that's going to follow me around pretending to be a "nice guy" telling me every bloke I see in an @$$ when all that is on their mind is how quickly they can get my underwear off. It's not being a "nice guy", it's being a friendly stalker. If all else fails then humour IS probably the best way to go. Just don't be falling over your own feet on to your face. You want her to laugh with you, not at you. Edited September 26, 2014 by Ailissa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom_Bunny Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 So today, I was planning on asking out the girl I like, and this is how it went down. >Go to locker >See girl >I say hi >"hey" >She walks to her friends >Walk up to her >Make 50° turn away from girl and walk to bus > (-_-) JUST UGH!!! IT KILLS ME!! I've watched many mates try to ask while their crush was in a group, let me tell you it never is pretty. Mostly because you embarrass them (I know because I was friends with both groups :D) and if they shut down from embarrassment their friends will protect that person. Though on the rare occasion you might get a person that likes you for having the courage to stand up and ask your crush in front of all your her/his friends and maybe they won't be so harsh, they might even say yes. But that's just my experience, my advice just continue on your own direction and see what happens. The worst that can happen is you get turned down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(PSN)Grievermode Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Ouch ! On Topic i myself can relate to you to, I find myself often got coldfeet whenever i try to approach the woman that i interest in and when i did it fails. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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