CityOfTrees Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) I have recently gotten into an unsettling situation, and am contemplating on what to do. While I do that, I decided to check what the insightful minds at WForums have to offer in this regard. My situation I've found a potential girlfriend, we both like each other very much, etc etc...I'd very much like to ask her out sometime and see where it goes, however she isn't the social type and spends most of her time at home. Thing is...I'm exactly the same and dislike going out. I'm not sure what I should do at this point because I don't want to make a situation where we both pretend we're having fun. Anticipating your suggestions. viable suggestion count: 1 Edited December 2, 2015 by BeeOverlord Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-dicht.ThanksFrost- Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Yo its so simple Netflix & Chill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Cynda_ Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Video games. Thought it'd be obvious. Find out what games that'll be suitable for both of you and play. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Surtur Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) Dinner at each other's houses and/or a movie at home? Edited December 2, 2015 by Surtur Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CityOfTrees Posted December 2, 2015 Author Share Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) Video games. Thought it'd be obvious. Find out what games that'll be suitable for both of you and play. Have I mentioned how little people are gamers where I live. Now I have. Dinner at each other's houses and/or a movie at home? Both houses occupied. Read the fourth word of the situation. Edited December 2, 2015 by BeeOverlord Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neah Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) Anything she likes to do? Edited December 2, 2015 by Neah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zero.No.Hikari Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Honestly give it a go, if you two enjoy each other what's not to try? Being at home is better than being out there.... Interacting with people..... I'd say Skype helps and sometimes plopping a movie into the TV is nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Yo its so simple Netflix & Chill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vazerd68 Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Have a walk to breath some fresh air, it doesn't hurt (i need confirmation on this), you could talk with her a bit this way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CityOfTrees Posted December 2, 2015 Author Share Posted December 2, 2015 Honestly give it a go, if you two enjoy each other what's not to try? Being at home is better than being out there.... Interacting with people..... I'd say Skype helps and sometimes plopping a movie into the TV is nice. She doesn't even use skype or facebook. Anything she likes to do? Nothing worth mentioning for this issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xXJunaiXx Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) - sorry i was just trying to be helpfull... Edited December 2, 2015 by xXJunaiXx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Cynda_ Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Have I mentioned how little people are gamers where I live. Now I have. It's never too late to start. Just try nudging her in the right direction. Or you could just chat about funny stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zero.No.Hikari Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 She doesn't even use skype or facebook. Nothing worth mentioning for this issue. Hmm darn well I'd say try to find a way to interact and enjoy each others company. Maybe read a book together or go to a library. Somewhere you two can call a 2nd home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CityOfTrees Posted December 2, 2015 Author Share Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) Have a walk to breath some fresh air, it doesn't hurt (i need confirmation on this), you could talk with her a bit this way. I've actually asked her about this. Turns out she rarely ever goes for a walk and doesn't enjoy it too much. Maybe read a book together or go to a library. Somewhere you two can call a 2nd home. I like this suggestion, just one problem, how does one read a book together with someone? snip The keyword is potential, at the moment I just want to spend some time with her and get to know her better. Edited December 2, 2015 by BeeOverlord Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zero.No.Hikari Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 I like this suggestion, just one problem, how does one read a book together with someone? Well you both read the same book and every now and then talk about it see what the other thinks about it and go from there. Maybe read a book series either hasn't read yet and enjoy it together. It's how I do it with my significant other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CityOfTrees Posted December 2, 2015 Author Share Posted December 2, 2015 I see potential in that. Thanks Zero. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zero.No.Hikari Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 No problem. Hope it works out. I know how it is being in a relationship with a socially shy person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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