Haydenator1912 Posted November 17, 2019 Share Posted November 17, 2019 (edited) Hey DE who sees this! I am 19 years old and have been in a very happy relationship with my high school sweetheart for about 3 years. We plan on getting married and beginning our entire life together on March 13th, 2020 and was hoping to get your guys' blessing on it just for good luck. She plans on being a wedding photographer for her career and I am hoping to be a 3D Modeler and make things for games and such. We are putting everything we have into schooling for her and I will just be self taught and a stay at home husband who tends bees and takes care of the kids whenever we have them. I also stream on the side because it can be amazing what communities can do together. If I play games so often, why not entertain and give smiles to others who enjoy it! Hopefully this reaches your computer screen and it gives you, the DE and/or audience, a big smile! Sincerely, Hayden and Duckie Edited November 19, 2019 by Haydenator1912 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HokoriKishi Posted November 17, 2019 Share Posted November 17, 2019 This is great and I really hope it works out for you two, You have the luck of clem on your side Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5H4DE Posted November 17, 2019 Share Posted November 17, 2019 If you ask me 20 is way too early to get married but if you two truly are sides of the same coin go for it. I dunno if anyone from DE will see it here, you can also try tweeting Rebecca, if she sees it she'll definitely give you her blessings and who knows, maybe more. Good luck on your future endeavors and don't rush with the kids, I'm talking from experience when I'm telling you they are an immense investment of time and money which will get exhausting. Wait on it until you make more money than you can spend, the little devil will greatly outspend you both in it's first few years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haydenator1912 Posted November 17, 2019 Author Share Posted November 17, 2019 (edited) Thank you TheRealShade I definitely will keep it in mind 😄 Edited November 17, 2019 by Haydenator1912 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tanayy Posted November 18, 2019 Share Posted November 18, 2019 Best wishes buddy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haydenator1912 Posted November 18, 2019 Author Share Posted November 18, 2019 5 hours ago, Tanayy said: Best wishes buddy! So far nothing, even tweeted rebecca Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M3tallius Posted November 18, 2019 Share Posted November 18, 2019 On 2019-11-17 at 5:29 AM, TheRealShade said: If you ask me 20 is way too early to get married but if you two truly are sides of the same coin go for it. I dunno if anyone from DE will see it here, you can also try tweeting Rebecca, if she sees it she'll definitely give you her blessings and who knows, maybe more. Good luck on your future endeavors and don't rush with the kids, I'm talking from experience when I'm telling you they are an immense investment of time and money which will get exhausting. Wait on it until you make more money than you can spend, the little devil will greatly outspend you both in it's first few years. Eh, folks always say this, but I've been married 21 years to my high school sweetheart. It takes a lot of dedication, perspiration and fornication to make it all work, but my oldest is in the Navy now, my middle baby is off to college and the youngest is my best friend. You have to be able to take a very long view on things, put her needs over your own and if you aren't willing or able to do those things without concern for yourself or your well being then you ain't ready hoss. Put in the hard work and introspection required to become the man she needs, even if it ain't the man she necessarily wants at that particular moment. Despite the politically correct b.s. you see out there today, never forget that your role will always be to pilot the ship. Let her think she's driving from time to time, but she will be your engine to your wheelhouse and give you purpose, which is a far more rewarding experience than anything your dumb @$$ will ever come up with. A good woman and a purposeful life are the greatest things you can ever experience on this earth. Just always keep the ship moving, even if all you can do day to day is to keep bailing on what feels like a boat that's more holes than it is hull. Trust your instincts, believe in yourself and always, always keep that ship moving for her sake, if not your own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haydenator1912 Posted November 19, 2019 Author Share Posted November 19, 2019 3 hours ago, M3tallius said: Eh, folks always say this, but I've been married 21 years to my high school sweetheart. It takes a lot of dedication, perspiration and fornication to make it all work, but my oldest is in the Navy now, my middle baby is off to college and the youngest is my best friend. You have to be able to take a very long view on things, put her needs over your own and if you aren't willing or able to do those things without concern for yourself or your well being then you ain't ready hoss. Put in the hard work and introspection required to become the man she needs, even if it ain't the man she necessarily wants at that particular moment. Despite the politically correct b.s. you see out there today, never forget that your role will always be to pilot the ship. Let her think she's driving from time to time, but she will be your engine to your wheelhouse and give you purpose, which is a far more rewarding experience than anything your dumb @$$ will ever come up with. A good woman and a purposeful life are the greatest things you can ever experience on this earth. Just always keep the ship moving, even if all you can do day to day is to keep bailing on what feels like a boat that's more holes than it is hull. Trust your instincts, believe in yourself and always, always keep that ship moving for her sake, if not your own. Best way it could be said, thank you a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haydenator1912 Posted November 20, 2019 Author Share Posted November 20, 2019 Well, thank you to those who replied. I think I may just let this get buried in all the off topic discussions....thank you guys 🙂 On 2019-11-18 at 3:46 PM, M3tallius said: Eh, folks always say this, but I've been married 21 years to my high school sweetheart. It takes a lot of dedication, perspiration and fornication to make it all work, but my oldest is in the Navy now, my middle baby is off to college and the youngest is my best friend. You have to be able to take a very long view on things, put her needs over your own and if you aren't willing or able to do those things without concern for yourself or your well being then you ain't ready hoss. Put in the hard work and introspection required to become the man she needs, even if it ain't the man she necessarily wants at that particular moment. Despite the politically correct b.s. you see out there today, never forget that your role will always be to pilot the ship. Let her think she's driving from time to time, but she will be your engine to your wheelhouse and give you purpose, which is a far more rewarding experience than anything your dumb @$$ will ever come up with. A good woman and a purposeful life are the greatest things you can ever experience on this earth. Just always keep the ship moving, even if all you can do day to day is to keep bailing on what feels like a boat that's more holes than it is hull. Trust your instincts, believe in yourself and always, always keep that ship moving for her sake, if not your own. Best way it could be said, thank you a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(XBOX)UpgradeAcorn989 Posted November 21, 2019 Share Posted November 21, 2019 m8 this is off-topic noone at de reads the stuff that goes on here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haydenator1912 Posted November 21, 2019 Author Share Posted November 21, 2019 2 hours ago, (XB1)UpgradeAcorn989 said: m8 this is off-topic noone at de reads the stuff that goes on here Idk where I would post it then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Numerikuu Posted November 21, 2019 Share Posted November 21, 2019 Try Reddit, or tweeting them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChaoticEdge Posted November 22, 2019 Share Posted November 22, 2019 The question is do you want Lotus to attend your wedding or do you want some sort of one the character from warframe? It is pose to be very special request and probably cost money *shrug* just dunno it does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haydenator1912 Posted November 22, 2019 Author Share Posted November 22, 2019 21 hours ago, Numerikuu said: Try Reddit, or tweeting them. I tweeted them a lot, I guess I could try Day 1 and so on until they notice haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haydenator1912 Posted November 22, 2019 Author Share Posted November 22, 2019 12 hours ago, ChaoticEdge said: The question is do you want Lotus to attend your wedding or do you want some sort of one the character from warframe? It is pose to be very special request and probably cost money *shrug* just dunno it does. I hope it doesn't cost money....don't have any to spare:( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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